Frank Alegria, Patriot Academy Alumni
If you asked the everyday American what was one of the most divisive aspects of society, politics would assuredly be a top 5 answer. And thanks to the badmouthing, lying, and mudslinging, politics is rightly perceived as an estranging topic. From the lowly activist to the elected official, all are calling for change. But what exactly needs to change, and how can we change it?
The quick answer to this question is our message, or what we say. And though this is true to a certain extent, it is how we present our message that matters most. If two angry, bickering politicians are shouting it out on the debate stage, it won’t matter much to the audience what the two believe, but rather who is the most entertaining. Compare this to a debate between two level-headed men in which clear, substantive differences are made. Instead of it becoming an entertainment show based on who can best put the other down with good, yet forgettable, punchlines, the result is that people are able to align themselves with candidates based on actual policy.
In addition to reforming our presentation, our receptiveness to others’ presentations is important as well. I do not mean compromising core beliefs to satisfy the Left – that is both weak and ineffective in the quest for change. But rather we should hear them out in a courteous way. This shows respect for them and their views, opens the door for friendship, and possibly a change of their views in the future.
Finally, how we conduct ourselves in victory is just as crucial as how we present and receive our messages. How we would wish to be treated in defeat is exactly how we should treat others in triumph. Whether one is proud or humble, everyone is repulsed by aloof, unsportsmanlike behavior. Instead, let us offer the opposition a seat at the table to hear their valid concerns. This kind gesture will not only be welcomed, but also, if used correctly, help alleviate their apprehensiveness and fear.
In conclusion, it is easy to see that a lot needs to change. But it is not enough to wait for the opposition to alter its methods of executing its beliefs, for it will never do so. You might say, “But they’re the extremists! They’re the ones who need to change!” This may be true, but the reason the Left is irrational may be due to their fear of us. Did how we present our message have anything to do with this? What about how we listened to their message? Is it possible that we are partially to blame for the boxing ring our country is in? If we are to effect the true change society so desperately needs, it is up to us as conservatives to show a difference in both word and deed. Only then can we bring about the change we need.
